If you are a 911 Network member, you need to read this...

Just a quick e-mail to say thank you once again for the generosity of the 911 Network. You helped my family out in a time of need and we will never forget that.

I've had the summer off treatments and we will see this month what the tumor looks like on scans and plan for possible fall treatment (head radiation etc.). If I'm back in the hospital this fall you can be rest assured I will be taking full advantage of my corporate rate with the 911 Network. The phone is like a computer itself and gives me tons of things to do with it to keep from boredom. The unlimited text messaging and low cost for the data package allows my wife and I to communicate without needing the expensive hospital phone in my room. Something we couldn't afford anyhow. I send pictures back to the kids and my wife sends me the kids photos a couple of times a day. Being housed in a ward that doesn't permit children under the age of 12 means I am without my family. Last year for months at a time. I can't describe how painful and lonely that is like. Your service has truly been a "life line" for my family and I. Under our strained financial situation we might have been able to afford maybe one cell phone in the house and most likely with limitations on its use again due to our financial situation. But the 911Network's plan allowed both my wife and I to have an excellent phone with virtually no limitation to our use of them.

I wish I would've known of your plan prior to falling sick. Even then when I wasn't on sick leave and earning my full salary ... owning two cell phones at such a great rate would have been phenomenal!

Thank you so much once again. I will keep you posted with the results of my upcoming brain MRI and CT scans of my chest & abdomen ... see if we've gotten rid of any of the cancer.

Yours Truly,

Michael Paré

I just had to post this, as it is a great gesture by York Regional Police...

Subject: touching letter from the Toronto Star.

What you can get at the dollar store

Published On Fri Oct 22 2010

An ordinary day at work took a heartbreaking turn when York Regional Police Platoon Sgt. Rob Cullen was called to a home in Keswick last week. Moved and determined to honour the man found lifeless and alone, Cullen sent his story to AM640 Radio.

THE LETTER

Last night, while working in my usual role as a police platoon sergeant, we were called to a VSA . . . vital signs absent, in the basement apartment of a house just north of Keswick.

The victim was 78 years old. A retired firefighter, he had served from 1959 to 1989 with the North York Fire Department. It no longer exists, having been enveloped by the Toronto Fire Department. The victim had succumbed to a heart attack.

His small basement apartment was very tidy. Upon the walls were tons of framed photos. Pieces of history from 1940s and ’50s baseball, hockey, entertainers, and horse racing. Certificates of gratitude from the North York Fire Department, the City of Toronto, and the pigeon racing club he belonged to after he retired. He had a very organized collection of 78 rpm records from the ’30s, ’40s and ’50s. Tommy Dorsey, Duke Ellington, Ella, Fats Waller . . . and he had the turntables to play them. The last album he played was Frank Sinatra.

He was very well read. Books of history lined his bookshelves, with an emphasis on Ontario and especially Toronto history. His specialty was the Avro Arrow . . . the huge limited framed edition print on his bedroom wall reflected his interest. Maybe sometime, somewhere, he saw the world’s greatest plane fly. He was a huge supporter of our troops. An article from the Toronto Sun about the 1st Canadian Parachute Battalion sat on his desk. Pictures of cops and firefighters were found here and there.

But as we found out, he had no next-of-kin. As the sergeant, it was my job to notify them. I had no one to visit, no one to see. No nieces or nephews, no sons or daughters. He was truly alone.

Satisfied with what I had seen, I left the detectives and constable on scene to await the coroner, and have the body removed to its final rest. As I walked down the driveway, the constable followed me out and said, “Hey Sarge, wait up! Can I ask you something?”

“Sure. Whatdya need?”

“Sarge, they’re gonna carry this guy out in a plastic bag. All the neighbours are watching. He was a firefighter for 30 years. Sarge he’s got no one . . . we can’t let him go like that. Can you find us a Canadian flag, so that when they take him out of the house, we can lay it on the gurney when they roll him to the hearse?”

7:30 on a Tuesday night. Where to find a flag? . . . Yup, the Dollar Store. The only thing open and, sure enough, they had one. Contrary to popular opinion, not everything at the dollar store costs one dollar. At this point, the cost was not really an issue. I bought the flag, and took it back to the scene.

The coroner released the body, and firefighter Robert Wilson was brought up from his apartment. Before he left the door, the flag was draped in its full glory across him, to honour the life of a man who was willing to give it at any time. For the 50 feet it took to take him to the removal vehicle, the neighbours watched in silent respect. The people from the funeral home tucked the flag secure and removed it with him. I expect it will be buried with him, too.

For a short time, the time it takes to walk a body 50 feet, he wasn’t alone. He was a firefighter, a hero. He was a Canadian. All it took was a flag to show it.

Maybe it’s time we find our heroes before their only honour comes from a dollar store.

Amy Dempsey

Grant Love

Fire Chief

CEMC

North Bay Fire & Emergency Services

705 474 0626 ext 4801

www.cityofnorthbay.ca